你可能不敢跟朋友聊，也不愿和家人說，只能一個(gè)人默默琢磨：“我到底怎么做，他才會(huì)更看重我？”

今天，不藏著掖著，咱們就來聊聊——三個(gè)實(shí)用又走心的方法，讓那個(gè)男人，愿意真心實(shí)意地為你花錢，而且你不會(huì)覺得低聲下氣。

第一點(diǎn)：別急著向他證明你“很懂事”

很多姑娘太習(xí)慣了壓抑自己的真實(shí)需求。

約會(huì)只選AA餐，看電影自己買票，連生日禮物都主動(dòng)說“不用不用，你有心就好”。

你是不是也這樣？

怕被貼上“拜金”的標(biāo)簽，怕男人嫌棄，怕自己不夠獨(dú)立。

可事實(shí)上，越是懂事，越容易被忽視。

你要知道，人的本性就是——凡是輕松得到的，不會(huì)珍惜。

如果你非要事事都靠自己，把所有需要和渴望都掖起來，對(duì)方根本體會(huì)不到為你付出的滿足感，那他慢慢地，也就理所當(dāng)然地懶得多為你投入。

偶爾表達(dá)自己的小欲望，是給他表現(xiàn)的機(jī)會(huì)，也是幫你們的關(guān)系“添把火”。

所以，請(qǐng)學(xué)會(huì)坦然提出自己的需求。

比如，看中一束花，不妨自然地說：“你送我，我會(huì)特別開心?！?/p>

或者生病時(shí)直接開口：“你能幫我?guī)c(diǎn)藥嗎？”

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第二點(diǎn)：讓他在你的世界里“有存在感”

坦白說，現(xiàn)在壓力大的不僅僅是你。

男人其實(shí)也很容易感受到無力，尤其是在“工作—回家—睡覺”三點(diǎn)一線的日子里，用錢表達(dá)關(guān)心，有時(shí)候是他們唯一能提供安全感的方式。