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朋友圈里有個(gè)老同學(xué)，早幾年就讓兒子參加國(guó)際交流項(xiàng)目。剛開始各種搓火，擔(dān)心會(huì)不會(huì)被騙、會(huì)不會(huì)受傷，結(jié)果回來(lái)說(shuō)：“真的成長(zhǎng)了，交了一堆朋友，學(xué)會(huì)獨(dú)立生活，還懂得照顧別人?！边@種成就感，是課堂上學(xué)不來(lái)的。孩子學(xué)會(huì)了自信，也帶回了正能量。

現(xiàn)在的職場(chǎng)需要啥？團(tuán)隊(duì)合作、溝通能力、解決問(wèn)題的膽量。開放環(huán)境其實(shí)就是提前鍛煉，無(wú)論未來(lái)做什么，都能游刃有余。再優(yōu)秀的學(xué)霸，離開了舒適圈，可能寸步難行。真正的高手，早就開始“社會(huì)化”，普通家庭也能復(fù)制這個(gè)模式——讓孩子融入大社會(huì)，從體驗(yàn)中成長(zhǎng)。

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